Along The Rivers Bend

11/29/18

The wind whispers the inviting sounds of sitting down for a spell,
to taste its gift of peace, a voice of secrets so tranquil

The wind it moves the waters down the curves and turns of this old hollow town.
The wind picks up my Thoughts today and carries them very far away.
To those times you sat right here whispering thoughts into its ear.

The wind takes into these hills the music of my beating heart,
Tuned by words of love and loss, the depts of pain you knew.
Missed opportunities this breeze takes to my heart from you.

Like the floating leaves under its sail,
Following the destined track, the hills regale.
Whispers which are destined to be forgot & left alone as leaves begin to rot.

Follow not the walker’s way, the wind knows a direct route.
To all the things that you never said, or decided you’d leave out.

Exactly which corner of this river will house all my dreams today.
If you were here, I bet I know exactly what you’d say.

“Let’s sit here sis. Just for a bit.”
To rest your soul and do nothing more in this quiet spent.
Rest That’d be in the moment, on this riverbank we’d drift.

My heart’s so full of everything you’ve had to release so quick,
I wish I could have known that day, rest could have been a gift.

The wind will take it now, from your weary heart,
The hills decide its path and knows the destined chart.
And you know it, because the sun is the one
Who’d kiss and tell the secrets that the winds begun.

The sun reflects the glistening push, the wind lays on the stream,
Which rolls new scenes back to your eyes & captures sparkling dreams.
thoughts and words of love and loss of missed opportunities
secrets you’ve left behind, that this wind has caught & now past my ears to me.

But where’re you’ve gone I do not know
all the dreams you’ve left, my heart will hold.
Until my mind is full again and I must return to This river bend,
where the wind will Whisper invitingly for me to gently set them free
To fly back into these magnetic hills of home

The place you took each sweet dream to but forgot them since you’ve gone.

(I go to the lake or river a lot and sit there processing all the loss in life, putting it in nice new clothes and categories that hold them safe until I make it back to process it all again. ON this day, a poem showed up and so I just began to write. I didn’t edit much, except separating the lines, so it’s heavy and sad, but I guess it had to go somewhere.)

There is Grace for That…

There is Grace for That…
I heard a song last night during the Greater Faith Service at FLC which was just what a worship
song should be to me. Some of the words are….”Mighty, Righteous, Matchless & Worthy, Holy, and
I call you Lord, and You call me Yours….what more can I ask for? Power and might are in Your
hands…who am I that you would care for me?… You look at me with such grace…” It makes me
think about the other songs we sing…and why we sing them.
Do you ever stop and think about the words you say or sing? I have, most recently anyway. I have
decided there are some songs I won’t sing along with, even if the whole congregation is singing it in
a service.
Now, this was what I thought.
These are such simple earthly words but they really can’t contain His fullness or how BIG and
AWESOME God is. Sometimes I pause, like a selah, and take in the vastness of who He is and I
still come short in the true fullness of Him.
He MUST look at me with incredible, powerful grace to be who HE is and fellowship with who I
am. The thing is, who I know I am, is not even in the fullness of who HE knows I am, and He still
looks upon me with love and acceptance. He still, despite that knowledge, notices me. This grace is
humbling, and His grace and mercy are the biggest benefits, outside of salvation, the blood of Jesus
offers to me.
I call Him Lord, and truly worship Him as such. Then when I examine my life, on the regular basis,
the decisions, reactions, and habits I see, I question that worship. “Is he really Lord, honestly?” I do
question this in myself more often now, but not as often as I want to. Especially as I knowingly rest
in the complete and righteous child HE made me. It’s this same grace that drives me to let some of
these hindering things in my life fall off. It isn’t the guilt I am speaking of because I know I don’t
live in guilt; it is this powerful grace that continues to clean out my vessel. His cleaning won’t
happen without my submission. Pruning won’t happen without my submission to the process. It’s
my agreement to release of all the unnecessary things that shouldn’t be there, I thought I needed.


The title of Lord is a big deal. Webster’s Dictionary stays:
\ ˈlȯrd \
1: one having power and authority OVER others:
a: a ruler by hereditary right or preeminence to whom service and obedience are DUE.
b: one of whom a fee or estate is held in feudal tenure.
c: an owner of land or other real (see REAL entry 1 sense 2) property.
d. obsolete: the male head of a household
e: HUSBAND
f: one that has achieved mastery or that exercises leadership or great power in some area.
2 (if) capitalized.
a: GOD sense 1
b: JESUS
Some questions I ask myself sound like these –
Does HE have authority over the things in my life?
Does he have authority over the decisions I make?
Is my obedience faithful… is it complete?
Does He own me…. all of me, all my real estate, all my possessions?
Does He have full authority over my skills, talents, and gifts?


Maybe a better way to say it is, have I surrendered all the things, obedience, decisions, talents, skills, gifts, real estate, possessions under His authority and Lordship to Him for Him to use as HE sees fit? Yeah, that sounds more like what I want to ask.
Being honest in that answer…my life, body and time would look a lot different if I had. People have called these priorities or commitments, even standards. I am not working to ‘get’ from God in any prideful, gluttonous way. I know I just receive from Him what He has promised to me, but I do have a part to play in accepting this gift, and this cleaning off of life’s residue. I don’t want to make His gift look un-credible because of my un-submission, but it does. Being overweight doesn’t give Him credit for healing, having credit card debt doesn’t give him credit for me being prosperous. Healing and prosperous living are still my gifts from Him, but how am I representing them? How am I presenting the gift from Him to the world? I have done better as time goes on with a righteousness consciousness’ thinking, and obedience that brings health and prosperous living. I would like to say it’s easy too, but it’s a mindset I am still overcoming. Walking from grace to grace is changing my life and knowing who I am in Him encourages that change. Instead of living under the mindset or the ‘law or works consciousness’ of doing good to get in His graces which I was raised under, has taken more time than I like. He has helped me to heal, slowly, from grace to grace. He doesn’t leave me stranded to move forward alone in His desires for my future, or yours.
Therefore, it is so difficult for me, (as well as many women from what I have seen recently in the world) to feel “ok” about the submission to my husband. This is what Eve fell for, questioning her submission. I am sure Adam discussed the tree with her. This is shown to us from her own remarks to the serpent. I am sure they passed by the tree several times a week, looking at its beauty and knowing what the ONE command from God had been about the tree. It was not so much a falling because of temptation as much as I see she fell because she laid aside her SUBMISSION to … first, Adam and second, to God. Eve gets a lot of chiding as so many of her sons and daughters still say things about her decision to partake, knowing she walked about inside this beautiful garden with God daily. That thinking has been almost hypocritical, along the lines of “How could she! If I had walked with God in that garden, I wouldn’t, I couldn’t go against His will and command. I mean He’s God! She walked with God….” I know this accusation exists because in my immaturity I thought it too. I can imagine, during the cool of the afternoons, she talked to God about other things as well, and surly learned different lessons from God, not just about the fateful tree law. She stepped outside of that education, and submission purposefully. I can’t imagine the shame she felt, not as the level of shame we feel, I think it was much more powerful because shame was new, she had never felt it before. I don’t remember the first time I felt shame, but I know it stayed with me, that is how powerful it was. None of us step into sin accidently, we walk straight into it, looking directly into its eyes, with a full knowledge and discretion of the wrong being committed. Which shows me, in all reality… submission is true safety, and a willful direct decision, a deliberate act of love. It is nothing to be feared when used the way it was created to be used. That is why God told her specifically in Genesis 3:16– ” Unto the woman he (God) said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow, thou shalt bring forth children, and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall RULE OVER thee (wife).” Making the position of the wife, not woman in general, notice the words, in submission to the husband. This was only said in response to her actions with the serpent. Obviously, Adam did not rule over her previously or God wouldn’t have to prescribe this penalty to her. Also, God never intended childbirth to be painful! Can you even imagine giving birth without pain or suffering, just a natural beautiful occurrence? One day your walking along the river, picking flowers and the next thing your allowing your body to release a baby, without pressure, without pain and it is a triumphant event! It’s still so beautiful, don’t get me wrong, but it wasn’t supposed to be the way we know it now even. That’s MERCY! He could have said, “Be gone Eve, you disobeyed!”, and poof He evaporated Eve, right then and there. Instead, He gave her something she could handle while trusting in Him through the process.
The key is, I don’t want to carry Eve’s ‘attitude’ into my own relationship with God. If I can’t submit to my husband, then I would also be much less likely to truly submit to God. Like the very familiar example of when a child refuses to submit to his/her parent’s rules. If the parent allows this behavior the child also surely won’t submit to a teacher, or others in authority throughout life. The biggest deception is the same one Eve faced in her temptation. It’s the deception laid out before me, and thousands of other voices I hear in the world I live amongst. Voices which try to persuade this attitude of not submitting is “ok”. Those same voice’s say, ‘I can just rely on the fact that I am generally a good person and I do good things…’ but that isn’t what I am called to be. I can’t lead others if I never submit to being led first.
I see so many baby Christians stepping out into serious ministry positions after only less than 5 years of their salvation and I pray for them, for their inevitable difficult journey, and highly probable fall. Toddlers aren’t mature enough to lead, it takes time to be discipled, more time than most think. It also takes submission, and years of that, not just a couple solid ones.

I pray, I will SEE the areas where I am not submitting…because I don’t want to lie whenever I call Him, Lord. I want to be able to truly call Him Lord. I WANT that submission in my life. How a wife submits to her husband, is the very way she submits to God. I feel it is simple submission.
Submission is key to every healing, as well as the breaking of chains from bondages or addictions I honestly search for. If I sit in my comfy Christian lifestyle and say “God, why isn’t this going away?!!” AS IF I were not responsible somehow as well, I am fooling myself. I want to respond and submit to Him more fully, quicker, and without fear. I desire to really see the goodness of God…in all its fullness…in the land of the living (earth), today.

What if this submission I have purposefully avoided is exactly what I’ve missed in receiving what I desire, or what God desires in my life? What if I was wrong all along in being unsubmitted?

There is grace for that…

Christmas Reflection 2020

Today as I reflect on this Christmas celebration in possibly one of the most difficult years for the body of Christ to date, I am also thinking back into the years past, I have a wonderful, exceeding feeling of hope that true restoration, which has been on its way, is here.

I have watched this restoration arrive, like a car full of family members arriving on Christmas day. It is so exciting and full of hope when you see your family pull up in the driveway, and then as each “person” shows up at your door, there are obvious adjustments you need to make for their visit and enjoyment.

Therefore, I have concluded that there are adjustments to be made to completely receive full restoration.  “Things” to be removed, adjusted.  Priorities to consider, new placemats to put out such as another chair at the table for the unexpected friend of your brother.  All are well worth the effort of change and accepting change, because that very unexpected guest may contain a source of knowledge or freedom you didn’t realize you needed before.

I generally listen for God to speak to me through other people in our natural conversations most all the time. Most of the time I get direct instruction from God Himself, not another person, of course. I know now however, He is most convincing when speaking to me through a quiet, soundless gift of restoration. When He whispers this way it’s louder than an auditable voice.  That is typical of the way God chooses to express Himself to me now, inside the voiceless quiet. His heart’s verbal beat inside the stillness of just BEING.

Restoration does that.  Intimacy does that, it clears things up to leave completeness in our lives.

One thing I would like to focus on now in my life, as I sit here in this completeness, is to surrender to my relationship with Jesus Christ Himself. All of it, because honestly, being on the fence can begin to hurt your legs.  I desire to truly realize the details of our relationship. He and I, we are engaged. I am His bride.  I know in this reflection today; I have not been true to Him in all areas of my life.  I have cheated on Him. That is a strange way to see being unfaithful, but this cheating was with a seemingly innocent issue. Just another ‘love’ which gained my attention for a little too long.

There are moments of my life and my walk to His alter, where I stepped into an image prepared for me, or desired too much from “this” place I later found myself to wallow in. I did not keep my eyes focused on “that” place which He has promised.

My desire today is to truly represent the bride He has made me to be. I desire to be dressed in all my “Kingly” attire and carry nothing I have been “given” from family, or friends or worldly estates for this one goal, and only walk down the aisle to Him.

This decision brought another focus to mind as well.

What IF separating the wheat from the tears reference from Matthew 13: 24-30 could include the things we pick up along the way in our betrothal?    Things such as ideas, new founded beliefs, concepts, traditions, clothes, jewels, the newest gadgets, righteous judgements. It could even be so normal as having the latest and greatest idea, gift and even being the latest & greatest in talent, or however it is we get to manufacturing the worship of whatever it is we worship? For some it has been worship that we have begun to worship. I don’t know about you, but I want to make it to the barn!

How exhausted I have become from of all these distractions and excursions that are thrown at me, especially the ones in the name of Christianity. Exhausting and cliché is the Christian that does not look any different than what the world can produce for the ones honestly seeking truth from the King’s Attire.

All we are asked to do is just follow the King. To sit, like minded with the Word.

IF we are in a relationship with Jesus Christ, and become lured into these other things, even with a Christian title attached to it, that is to me considered adultery.

Are you saying I am having an affair on Jesus?  Yes, maybe no, but only each one in his own heart can decide if someone has attached themselves to something other than His Kingly attire (promised estate) or call (duty).

If when a person is thinking and lusting in their mind about another who is not our husband (or wife) is in fact considered adultery (because it is our heart condition that matters most), how could this also NOT be considered an affair, or “cheating” during our relationship with Jesus?

If we have truly given our “Hearts” to Jesus- and we live for HIM, why all the controversary?  It’s simple, I wasn’t redeemed by the precious blood of Christ to be a cheater, and neither were you.

We really should only want the world’s sparkly shoes if we are only wearing the “Christian” coat. Not fully housing the Kingdom of Christ inside us. I personally would not be satisfied only wearing the persona, or coat, as I desire to BE a believable bride.  To live and exist AS Being restored.

This then is my endeavor this next year.  To answer all these questions for myself, about myself, and to judge myself on “how true” of a bride I have been & can BE now to my Jesus.

Restoration is now.

Who is Eve?

I am a writer, poet, photographer and drummer, but most of the time my main identity is an industrialized domestic engineer for my family. I do not know how to separate those titles as they wholly make me who I am. I serve as one of the drummers on our worship team at church. I am also in a Christian band called Laus Perennis, which is getting up and running more and more. We have put some music out on iTunes so check that out!

I love making quilts, and sewing has become a delightful pastime. On occasion I will bake and decorate a cake, however, I usually don’t eat them as I am on a health caravan and I’m changing the way I have lived, eaten and thought for most of my life.

My main motto is “if it isn’t productive, don’t bother with it”. I have spent too much of life just waiting for things to happen for me, and what I learned from that is I am the one who will make my life happen for me.

My first son is married and has given me a beautiful daughter-in-love whom I cherish. He is in college and I am excited to see where that takes him soon. My second son, is also married to a beautiful girl. He is creative and teaches me so much about peace and individuality that somehow I lost in the last several years, and he has made me into the best grandma in the world. I am learning to enjoy a very new stage in life being called Grandma. I have a third son who lives locally and he is enjoying his single life and just being who he is! I have a fourth son, who is presently studding at MIT in Boston, MA who I do believe will change some things for the better in our world in his future.

I love Jesus Christ and I do my level best to live every day for Him, through Him as I have committed my life 17 years ago to His every whisper, not mine. Yes, I may fail, I didn’t say I was God, I said I was committed to Him and I answer to Him, as He IS King of kings and Lord of lords. I am married to an “equally committed man of God”, who happens to be the most faithful and honest person I have ever met in my whole life (outside of Jesus). He is a musician and part-time worship leader at our church and I have realized I am extremely blessed to have such a handsome, hardworking husband and best friend in my life. He helped me get into a calling I didn’t realize I was to occupy in my younger years, which is playing drums. I don’t just play drums, I create a habitat for worship to my God. I praise God every day for my husband, he deserves a medal for battles he has helped me fight, as well as the life we have wared in together.

I have seen many things in my lifetime, I have experienced grievous tragedy and unfathomable joys, and I can tell you it took them both to be able to stand in these shoes. Come with me now to examine the footprints I have made.

KODAK Digital Still Camera

Holiness

Jan. 2021 Election Fiasco

I was explaining something to Jason this evening and I thought maybe I could share it here too because it’s really been a concern on my heart. About a week after the election, I was watching the reactions of everybody not just around me but around the world and I was picking up on something that I know that I know that I know that God was showing me He has picked up on.

I believe that President Trump was really supposed to be a president for us another 4 years.

I also think there was something the church and republicans had begun that maybe just maybe God didn’t approve of. I concluded that I was very ok. I won’t say I was happy, but I am ok that he won’t be serving as our president and it’s for the sake of the church and for the Glory of God. Here’s why.

If we His Bride puts anything or anyone before Him, He will leave us to that for our salvation.

Now I am not saying ALL of us have done this, not all have put the grace and power of Trump as President over the grace and power, over the “1st chair” standing, over the kingdom authority that is ours alone through the salvation and surrender to God and His plans, and His care, and His provision for us as Christians.

Not all of us have trusted in Trump or a particular party to fix the country as well as fixing our own back yards, but enough of the church has, obviously.

Probably not on purpose either…I know all who profess to be Christian love God, but if we have changed course a little too much and have more fully relied on Trump for this ‘salvation’ of our nation than we have relied on God for its salvation, then we would still be in serious trouble if Trump would have been elected anyway!!

Does anyone else see this? I have been holding this in for several weeks. God takes care of His people, some government doesn’t. I am not completely innocent here, but He has brought me to the carpet of repentance and when I got up to look around at the outcome it all looked so very different.

If it is one thing I have learned over and over and over in my walk with God, it is this: the very second I place something or someone else in front of God as my savior…in all His loving grace He removes it.

He gives me the chance to see it, He gave the whole church the opportunity too to see this, but if I still miss that swath of grace being laid out in my life and I continue to steam forward, headstrong, eventually He steps out of the game. Yet when I finally fall because I am outside of that precious grace and I come back to Him, repent and get back on track His way…He has never ever said “well Tamra, you just took it too far that time, I have nothing else for you.” Never, not once. He opens His arms so wide and lovingly that I am physically weak from that extended and powerful mercy. Mercy is so powerful. I am so thankful for it.

I am talking about modern day idolatry, and I think it carries a variety of faces. For me, I have to watch for the face of pride in accomplishing a job well done, selfishness, placing my own needs before others, not getting a big head when I play exceptionally well during a worship set, making sure the people in my life have the things they need before I have some of the unimportant lavishes I indulge in.

We will either choose to let Trump be “god” or choose Biden to be “god”, or we will choose to let God be God, and provide, love on us, flourish us and sustain our very lives in our world today. I choose Life (Deut. 30:19)

KETO VEGAN

WHAT IS KETO VEGAN?                                                                   April 5, 2018

There are so many diets out there and I didn’t know if I would ever get off the spinning wheel of changing from one to another in my adult life. I have heard so much about the Keto diet recently, but still felt it slightly unbalanced for what I needed. Then I thought one day, why couldn’t a vegan diet be keto? Well, it can.

It all started when I went to meet my new Dr. in December last year, which I am usually nervous about. Among the many topics we discussed, one was my weight, and he ended up asking me to lose 20 pounds. This is what started me on a quest to find the most appropriate lifestyle change. I had already begun a basically full out vegan lifestyle in May of 2017, but I had not cut out many things like eggs, butter and we also still have meat once a week. The transition into this vegan lifestyle was on its way. I was feeling better, more energy, but yet the weight wasn’t coming off like I wanted it to since May.
In my searching, I found that the keto diet was all the rage right now, but the typical keto diet was very much opposite of where I was headed, which was eventually 100% vegan, which meant even leaving out oils from my food choices. I noticed there was a lot of meat people were consuming on the keto diet but also that there weren’t many vegetables, it seemed out of balance. Plus, the meat people were choosing were not very healthy choices like bacon and hot dogs, or sausages just because they were considered protein. My original assumption was that this keto diet was basically Paleo and a person was to eat a ton of meat and no bread.
I knew I must have been following the most confused, and ill-informed people to get this impression, once I realized what was medically involved in the keto diet. It’s not all about meat, and people were consuming way too much meat and very little nutrition on top of that. The actual keto diet plan says to increase your fat intake and reduce greatly your carbohydrate intake. That is much different from what I was seeing in all the recipes and popular posts. The keto ratios show that a person is to consume 5 -10% of carbohydrates, 20-30% protein, and 60-80% in fats. I hope someone tells these confused people that meat is not considered fats, even though some meats are very fattening.

After seeing these ratios, I thought, this can be done with a vegan lifestyle, no problem. Finding any information on keto vegans was almost impossible, and more times than not it was highly suggested not to try to conform the vegan style into a keto plan. I had already stepped way into convincing myself this was possible to turn back now, so I kept going. I did find a few articles on it, but one video from Dr. David Jockers was very concise and broke it down quite well. Watch the video. I can admit, I have not gone this direction yet, but I am seriously considering it.
I have learned from personal experience, that using herbs is vital to enjoying any kind of food or diet transition. I highly recommend using many herbs in cooking new foods, like when leaving out a food typically eaten in a dish, like chicken or beef. Herb variety is something to keep in mind while changing foods to include in the vegan keto diet.
Since the keto diet would help in more than just the area of weight loss for me, like lowering inflammation and arthritis pain, it was for these reasons I was so interested in it to begin with. Keeping in mind that whatever diet you choose for the long-term should be different than the one that is short-term. Our bodies depend on us to fuel it, and if a person doesn’t eat the nutrition or drink the nutrition the body needs, it can’t access it any other way. Food is fuel, fuel has balanced proportions, this would be the first thing to keep in mind when considering any diet plan. I do feel the keto diet is not sustainable long-term, not even the vegan keto plan. However, to get a jumpstart on weight loss and to aid in lowering other symptoms this is possible and healthy for about a three-month timeframe.
The keto diet for a vegan would look a little like this. Many vegans do not use oils, even olive oil which most people claim to be very healthy so this part could be the most challenging for the avid vegan consumer. This is the area that I will start at to break down specific foods for the fats component.

VEGAN FATS:
Avocado, coconut oil, coconut milk kefir, avocado oil, coconut butter, raw cacao nibs and powder, olives, coconut milk yogurt, MCT oil, minimally processed dark chocolate, olive oils, coconut flakes
Adding extras of these will be vital and the key to the true keto success of the vegan keto plan.

CARBOHYDRATES:
Blueberries, strawberries, raspberries, blackberries, lemons, limes, spinach, kale, zucchini, onions, Brussel sprouts, cauliflower, asparagus, romaine lettuce, green leafy lettuces, green beans, pickles (no sugar), coconut kimchi, sauerkraut, pickled ginger, artichokes
These are just a few of the examples, but there are a wide variety of the green leafy vegetables and berries to choose from. These are the lowest on the glycemic index and some of them are considered free foods that don’t have to be counted towards the carbohydrate percentage amount. Carbs like berries must be counted and monitored.

VEGAN PROTEIN:
Pea protein, hemp protein, flax seeds, sprouted nuts, sprouted seeds, roasted nuts, roasted seeds,  tempeh or natto, vegan protein powder drinks, shirataki noodles, shirataki mushrooms, algae (spirulina), hemp seed, algae-based omega 3’s,
Spirulina powders   nutritional yeast, chia seeds, pumpkin seeds
This is a large list, maybe not comprehensive, but a large list of protein options.
Dugan suggests other things like drinking green Matcha tea, or dandelion tea replaces coffee in the morning are great ideas, but coffee isn’t off limits, just power it up and make it purposeful, like a bulletproof coffee instead.
The focus, in my opinion, is still to have the meals to be mostly vegetables, but really add on the fats to your vegetables to optimize the fat intake needed daily to reach ketosis, which is the key for this diet plan. In fact, something important I learned from the video from Dr. Dugan that eating too much meat will eventually go against a persons ability to reach ketosis because it becomes such a stressor for the body by creating constipation and it would be turned into sugar at a certain level of meat consumption. The Functional Nutritional Practitioner Michael Dugan at Dr. David Jockers website explains all of this in his video I linked above, and again here. I found that alone to be very interesting and could be the reason people say that the keto diet didn’t work quickly or well enough for them. One would then have to ask, what they were really eating. This has worked for many years for removing disease and a side effect of the keto diet is weight loss.
If your food choices are vegetarian or vegan don’t lose heart about doing a keto plan, it is very doable. Again, I don’t suggest doing this for more than three months, I don’t know that I could last three months on it, but I am willing to try this for at least three weeks and test it out to lose the 20 pounds the Dr asked me to lose. Give it a try, and keep in mind balance and mindfulness are so very important as well.
A big thank you goes out to Dr. David Jockers, Health Nutrition Practitioner at DrJockers.com for the excellent reference materials in this blog, and the YouTube video with advice on doing a keto plan without compromising a vegan lifestyle.

The New Normal of Virtual Jobs in 2020

By Tamra Ingram Curry

November 30, 2020

This entire year of 2020 has been unprecedented, no doubt. Many things have changed; the way we conduct our careers has surely, but we have changed the most. The way we think about everything we do in our own homes is impactfully different this last year, and that has steadily begun to move into the workplace as well. Businesses must keep producing products and services, and employees must keep generating incomes, these are absolutes. What has not been straightforward and absolute is how, as a country, we go about successfully making such a drastic transition in a now continually changing environment. The required changes are going to manifest differently in the vastly diverse types of businesses, of course. The virtual workplace explosion is one answer to how this transition will manifest, as we see more zoom team meetings, remote interviews, and other virtual hiring processes. What does working remotely look like? Are virtual interviews as effective as person-to-person interviews?  How and when do we know our company should transition to remote working? Are positions at our business considered essential and expect our employees to travel to work as normally in the past?

This shift from on-site jobs to virtual jobs is an interesting concept in the post-industrial, consumer-driven American economy of the last several decades. Most of us have become accustomed to working away from home. It has been normal working closely with other people, often in physical and collaborative jobs such as construction or manufacturing.  White-collar businesses and service job mindsets have driven our economy to the top worldwide. 

By May of 2020, if you were able to keep your job and transition to remote work, how easily did that happen? If you were one who lost your job and had to seek a new one, what skills could you offer a company if you had to work remotely with them? Job interviews that must take place remotely must be handled in specific ways for this transition. There is a real pressure out there to be skillful and pliable enough to know how to work and effectively produce trade goods and services in this new era. For some people that pressure is downright frightening. How can we make the transition simpler, and less intimidating for some?

The Swivel to Home Based Offices

Many Americans were fortunate to make the transfer from office-based jobs directly to home-based jobs. Others, however, were already working remotely in their field and nothing much in their day to day has changed. Professionals who may have easily made the switch include those who work as content writers, web designers, sales or marketing associates, general office assistants, and administrative assistants. Some smaller based restaurants have started cozy one or two-person remote food trucks to cope with seating restrictions and their newly limited customer base.

There are several topics mentioned by Arianna Huffington’s book Thrive about self-care and employee health. Employee health and self-care has been a vital consideration for large companies even before this year, according to Huffington. Health, especially mental health, will be just as crucial for the home-based workspace as much as it was in the office-based workspace, and likely even more vital. Traditionally the idea of, “don’t take the work home with you.” was widely accepted and encouraged; before the pandemic, that is.  That notion is impossible now, as for many of us, our workdays unfold at home Monday through Friday. Huffington develops the concepts of office nap areas, and healthy snacks provided by and replenished in the company’s break rooms each week for all employees to take advantage of. She discusses the introduction of three-week vacations as opposed to the normal one-week allowance. The concept that healthy workers produce wealthy workplaces (Huffington) is such a fantastic new concept, that we must adapt these ideas into the home offices of 2020 too.

Starting Over

Millions of other workers have been forced to start over and in most cases virtual or remote work is the best place to start. The Penny Hoarder has some great ideas for starting a home-based business in 2020. The article discusses ideas such as freelance writing, virtual assisting, tutoring, entrepreneurial work, social media consulting, and content writing. If you happen to be a hugger and are honestly not doing so great without the personal encounters, you might consider a new job of food delivery driver, photographer, babysitter. You could also give music lessons or start a house cleaning business. Each of these are more independent jobs will provide you with healthy person to person interactions without the crowd effect and danger of the moment (Connors).

Fortunately, many of these great ideas are locally based and do not require much travel. Traveling to other states or going hours away from home base has recently been an issue as some states have restricted access to non-residents.

The other fortunate thing is taking on one of these new local jobs can help the community of essential workers feel better about going to work away from home. For example, if they know their kids are home safe with a tutor or qualified babysitter, they can focus on doing their own job better and with less worry. Peace of mind is invaluable these days; it has no qualifying price tag available.

Employers Finding Virtual Employees

Many of the interviews conducted today are happening via Skype, Zoom, or even FaceTime videos. Video interviewing has changed the way interviewers perform pre-hire screening from the ‘old ways’ of face to face encounters. Spark Hire, a company that claims to be an expert in the field of remote work, has established its company as one who connects, like a bridge, communication accessibility between employers and job seeking candidates. Test Prep Nerds, mentioned by Spark Hire (Tolan), helps candidates to understand the prerequisites employers have, and what they are looking for in new employees. Connecting employers and remote employees is by itself an exceptional, brilliant idea of a new business concept in this remote world. It is entrepreneurial thinking such as this like the companies mentioned by Spark Hire that will get America back on its feet economically.

How to Get Noticed

From an employee’s point of view, resumes should also be revamped and edited enough to be relevant to the needs of employers who are seeking remote workers. Search Engine Optimization (SEO) in a resume is a modern key to become noticed by potential employers.  Adding SEO in your resume headlines and titles could be what keeps you in the company’s human resource pile instead of their trash bin. Listing specific skills in a specific area of the resume, say on the upper left of the email or letter, is vital for being noticed.

Interviews are being conducted via video as well. One important element of video interviews that Mark Beal speaks of in his book, 101 Lessons They Never Taught You in College, is to script your skype sessions by giving a good deal of thought to where you will conduct your interview in the home setting (Beal). He also mentions being thoughtful in what you will wear, to dress as if you are meeting face to face. Clean your home office and do not have posters or pictures in the background that may seem inappropriate or that could disqualify you for the job before the interviewer can ask the first question. Everything will be evaluated even your living space. It is undoubtedly one factor an interviewer considered, so little opinions plastered on your walls can eliminate your opportunity, even if you have the most impeccable skills to offer the company.

No one can say when or if this new normal will revert to the old normal, of pre-pandemic times, so we cannot bank on it. Many new doors have now opened and become decorated with fresh and vibrant wreaths of unexpected success.  Some employees may never get back to working at the office again in the future. I say, let us make the best of our present challenges by engaging our brilliant minds to jump the hurdles of 2020. My challenge is to think bigger than the pandemic and its imposed limitations and communication routes.  We will continue to perform skillfully and create excellently just as we have always done as Americans. Remember, we are a nation of people who have conquered bigger obstacles in our past. I believe we can make even this trial in life a steppingstone for new, innovative, and creative platforms.

Beal, Mark. 101 Lessons They Never Taught You in College. Toms River NJ, Beal Sports & Entertainment, LLC, 2017.

Connors, Tiffany. “We Found the 26 Best Ideas for Home-Based Businesses in 2020.” The Penny Hoarder, The Penny Hoarder, 11 Nov. 2020, http://www.thepennyhoarder.com/make-money/start-a-business/home-business-ideas/. Accessed 27 Nov. 2020.

We Found the 26 Best Home-Based Business Ideas for 2020 (thepennyhoarder.com)

Huffington, Arianna. Thrive. New York, NY, Harmony Books / Penguin Random House LLC, 2014 -2015, pp. 22-113.

Tolan, Josh. “Experts Weigh-in On the Pivot to Remote Work.” Spark Hire, Spark Hire, hr.sparkhire.com/tips-for-hr-pros/remote-work-video-interview-platform/. Accessed 27 Nov. 2020.

Hiring with a Video Interview Platform for Remote Work – Spark Hire

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